{"id":57870,"date":"2019-07-29T09:00:33","date_gmt":"2019-07-29T13:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eventsource.ca\/blog\/?p=57870"},"modified":"2025-12-11T06:23:43","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T11:23:43","slug":"6-questions-you-should-never-ask-the-couple-right-before-the-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eventsource.ca\/blog\/6-questions-you-should-never-ask-the-couple-right-before-the-wedding","title":{"rendered":"6 Questions You Should Never Ask the Couple Right Before the Wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You shouldn\u2019t need to be reminded that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eventsource.ca\/event-planners\/wedding-planners\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">planning a wedding<\/a> is stressful and as such, the weeks leading up to the big day can put couples a little more on edge than they would normally be. This is why it is important to think carefully before firing off a text asking them for something or expecting a speedy response. Here are some examples of questions you should never \u2013 ever \u2013 ask the couple right before the wedding.<\/p> <hr \/> <p><strong>1. <\/strong><b>Having any second thoughts?<\/b>\u00a0Even if you are kidding around, it\u2019s probably best not to ask if they are already regretting getting married.<\/p> <p><b>2. Are you worried if your dress\/suit is going to fit?<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0It should go without saying that you should never ask about someone&#8217;s weight\u2026 especially right before the wedding when it\u2019s probably too late to make alterations. <\/span><\/p> <p><b>3. Aren\u2019t you worried about the weather?<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Guaranteed, they are. But that does not mean it\u2019s your job to point it out. Chances are, they have thought about all possible outcomes and planned accordingly.<\/span><\/b><\/p> <p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eventsource.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/DSC_9925.jpg\"class=\"link-image link-image_wide\" rel=\"gallery\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"full-size-image alignnone wp-image-58479 size-full\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCA4OTkgNjAwIiB3aWR0aD0iODk5IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjYwMCIgZGF0YS11PSJodHRwcyUzQSUyRiUyRnd3dy5ldmVudHNvdXJjZS5jYSUyRmJsb2clMkZ3cC1jb250ZW50JTJGdXBsb2FkcyUyRjIwMTklMkYwNiUyRkRTQ185OTI1LmpwZyIgZGF0YS13PSI4OTkiIGRhdGEtaD0iNjAwIiBkYXRhLWJpcD0iIj48L3N2Zz4=\" data-spai=\"1\" alt=\"Before the Wedding\" width=\"899\" height=\"600\"  \/><\/a><span class=\"caption\">Photo Courtesy of <a class=\"listing-mentionable listing-mentionable-disabled listing-mentionable-disabled\" href=\"#\" target=\"_self\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-listing=\"7479\">Boakview Photography<\/a><\/span><\/p> <p><b>4. Did you think about doing <\/b><b><i>x<\/i><\/b><b> this way?<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Trust us, no couple wants to hear your suggestions right before the wedding. Asking why the couple didn\u2019t do things a certain way is rude and unnecessary since they won\u2019t be able to change anything this close to the wedding. <\/span><\/p> <p><b>5. Why didn\u2019t I get an invite\/ Why didn\u2019t <i>[this person] <\/i>get an invite\/ Can I bring a plus one?<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Guest lists are hard and chances are, the couple had to leave off some very important people from their list to make way for obligation invites and account for space \u2013 don\u2019t be the person that makes things awkward.<\/span><\/b><\/p> <p><b>6. 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