{"id":70311,"date":"2021-04-16T09:00:12","date_gmt":"2021-04-16T13:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eventsource.ca\/blog\/?p=70311"},"modified":"2025-12-11T06:05:38","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T11:05:38","slug":"how-to-be-the-best-destination-wedding-guest-you-can-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eventsource.ca\/blog\/how-to-be-the-best-destination-wedding-guest-you-can-be","title":{"rendered":"How to Be the Best Destination Wedding Guest You Can Be!"},"content":{"rendered":"

The general assumption when it comes to destination weddings is that they are less \u2018formal\u2019 than the traditional wedding. As such, some guests can often get a little lax on things like RSVPs, or showing up on time (and sober). It\u2019s unfortunate that sometimes awesome guests can end up causing the biggest headaches for the couple.<\/p>

Here are some tips so that you don\u2019t become the start of the cringe-worthy stories the couple tells at parties:<\/p>

Do\u2026<\/strong> Understand that while attending a destination wedding is a fun, often casual destination, it is still a time-consuming and sometimes expensive event. So make sure that you are committed to paying for, and attending the wedding.<\/p>

Do\u2026 <\/strong>Commit. If you know for sure you can\u2019t make it, don\u2019t provide a half-yes to the couple. Let them know that while you\u2019d love to be there, you can\u2019t make it. If you can make it \u2013 great! Let them know ASAP!<\/p>

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Do\u2026<\/strong> Follow all deadlines including payments. There is no need to cause the couple more stress by not following the payment deadlines and putting them in the awkward position of having to remind you.<\/p>

Don\u2019t\u2026<\/strong> Bring a plus one if one wasn\u2019t included in your invite. Chances are, the couple will invite you and a guest, however showing up with someone unexpectedly is still a no-no.<\/p>

Don\u2019t\u2026<\/strong> Worry about a big expensive gift. Most of the time, the couple does not expect a gift as guests paying for the vacation will suffice. However, if you are planning to give a gift, make sure you use their registry!<\/p>

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Do\u2026<\/strong> Take time to explore! When you\u2019re not at a wedding-related event, organize an excursion and take time to enjoy yourself!<\/p>

Don\u2019t\u2026<\/strong> Be \u2018that guy’. Don\u2019t show up to the ceremony overly drunk or shirtless having just come from the beach. It\u2019s still a wedding, even if you get to wear linen shorts!<\/p>

Do\u2026<\/strong> Remember your essentials: Sunscreen, water bottle, and beach reads. Take time to relax and recharge in a beautiful location.<\/p>

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